Etiquette and Protocol

Arriving for the session:

Please show up on time for your session. If you arrive more than 10 minutes early, please stand by at a nearby location; do not wait outside of the studio. Please try to arrive showered for your session, however a shower is available on site if needed. If anal play has been pre-negotiated, you are expected to prepare with an enema: either at home before our session, or I can administer one for you at the studio for an additional $15.

Communication:

Please note that my phone line is to be used only for the purposes of booking an appointment or asking a specific question that you don’t see answered on my website — as such, I can offer a brief text exchange for achieving this purpose. You are welcome to chat with me on SextPanther on a pay-per-volley basis where I can give you my fuller attention.

Any correspondence between us is to be respectful and polite at all times. I have zero tolerance for boundary pushing, haggling, usage of pet names, or topping from the bottom.

Safety:

I use the safe word system GREEN-YELLOW-RED. Please read the linked article if you are unfamiliar with these terms, and let me know if you need any clarification prior to O/our session. All participants, including myself, have the right to use safe words during a scene.

Insistence on any play that could have genuinely damaging impacts on the health, livelihood or sanity of any participant will not be tolerated. If we are engaging in pain play, I may occasionally ask you to use a 1-10 scale to describe the intensity of the sensations you’re experiencing, so that I can adjust accordingly.

I have the right to interrupt, end, or establish new limits during a scene if I believe that any party is at risk of coming to genuine harm.

On occasion, I find that some clients momentarily forget to employ the safe word system. If my intuition tells me that you are in the yellow zone without you vocalizing this, I may gently check in with you to ensure your safety before continuing the session.